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[–]Movellon[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Please be careful when deciding to meet people off the internet in real life.

Think,

Do you really know this person?

Are they being genuine about who they are?

Should I give identifiable information about myself before I’ve met this person in real life, including addresses?

Speak to this person on the phone before meeting, get a feel for who they are.

Consider what their motivations might be for wanting to meet?

Never meet someone anywhere but a busy public location for the few few times you meet.

Do not go back to their place, do not invite them to yours until you have met a few times.

Always tell friends and family where you’re going, the name of who you’re going to meet, where you made contact with them initially, and how long you’re going to be. Give them the phone number/contact details of who you’re going to meet.

Always have a back up plan in case you need to leave quickly.

If you don’t feel comfortable for any reason when you meet, leave.

Stay in a public area, resist the temptation to “go somewhere more private”.

Google them, look at their social media, see if they check out with what they’re telling you.

[–]Dadscloaca 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Let me know if you want to hang out, I'm in Brooklyn.

[–]pacsatonifil 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Stay safe out there

[–]chazzstrong 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I thought most sane people had left NYC?

[–]Shales123 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I grew up here, my family is here, and I have financial opportunities here. I'm not gonna be chased out of my own city by SJWs

[–]chazzstrong 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well kudos and good luck.
I've only been to NYC twice, but that was enough for a country boy like me to know I don't belong there.