LifestyleHow do you think you appear to others once you've disclosed that you're gay/lesbian/bi?

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[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

You've read things into this that aren't there to read into it. Please read it again but without the lens of trying to find negative things in what I said. Thanks. If it still doesn't make sense then I'll try to help, but at the moment I'm busy still feeling ill, as I was during the wee hours when I wrote this. If you are so busy trying to prove someone else said something bad or wrong that you can't give the benefit of the doubt, I kinda don't have any energy for this conversation.

Please be a kinder listener. I am not your enemy. So I'd appreciate it if you didn't lunge at what I said as if I am.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Well, you said your bisexuality isn't an accident, which like imply you're bi on purpose because men are easier to get. I mean it wasn't about inding nothing negative, just what it sounded like

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And this is why the benefit of the doubt is a good thing. Thanks in advance for extending me that courtesy next time, if there is one. I seldom feel that crappy, fortunately.