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[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

People like those don't deserve to know anything personal about you, and you don't owe it to them to disclose your sexuality so that they stop acting like assholes, because it's very likely the woman would just turn around and say 'you're just a white gay man, you don't know what oppression is like!'. You can't win with those idiots.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

And if you say you're not white or male they would say you have internalized colonialism/misogyny. That is on top of the terrible cis privilege that only exists in the mind of a TRA.