Gay Menr/askgaybros - Should Gay Men (aka natal males who are exclusively same sex attracted) be entitled to spaces just for them without hassle, harassment,or hate?

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[–]simpliyoot 30 insightful - 6 fun30 insightful - 5 fun31 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

its funny how they claim theyre being brigaded when the overwhelming majority of gay men dont agree with their views but when you see the zealots, it's a brigade from "gender cynical" and most of them, when you click on their profiles are literally straight males who "identify" as lesbians so what are THEY doing on that sub lol

[–]Criticallacitirc[S] 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This particular thread was posted in AHS, so of course they are there brigading

[–]Criticallacitirc[S] 21 insightful - 16 fun21 insightful - 15 fun22 insightful - 16 fun -  (4 children)

Yall turns out we aren't attracted to transmen because we're jealous that they are hotter than us.

https://www.reddit.com/r/gaybroscirclejerk/comments/mpz9i7/comment/gudkira

[–]shveya 13 insightful - 13 fun13 insightful - 12 fun14 insightful - 13 fun -  (0 children)

You mean you don't want to be a 4'10 dickless manlet with child-bearing hips and a smurf voice?

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In case you ever wondered whether GBCJ was a cesspit of bitter drag queens and Cluster Bs.

[–]usehername 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That thread killed me... "worthless bottom". sigh

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Best not to give that loser sub any attention.

[–]NutterButterFlutterStill waving into the void 14 insightful - 9 fun14 insightful - 8 fun15 insightful - 9 fun -  (2 children)

ballyfast

If you meet a man, do you immediately demand to see if he has a cock and calls before you feel comfortable calling him a man?

AdharaAlnair

Yes, because I'm a nasty gay pervert, I wanna see them jewels.

LMAO! I love you guys.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Gatekeeping exclusively gay spaces is difficult. For one thing, there's no way of stopping straight men from accessing them. Same thing for cis-passing trans men if there isn't nudity.

Uh, I don't think straight men are or have even been an issue in gay spaces. It's always been women, namely women who fetishise or think gay men are happy to have them in their gay male spaces.

Edit: by issue, I don't mean straight men going to gay spaces to attack gay men, I mean straight men wanting to be there BECAUSE it's a gay space.

[–]EveSerpentFiregender Mon-Fri / Pyrogender Wknds & Holidays 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I’m not sure I really want to know but what does “cis-passing” mean? If it’s that these women look like their bio sex, then why is that even a problem? Since they make the claim to be men, according to the rules that’s all that matters so why stop them? Is there a secret other meaning of this weird phrase?

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Cis-passing, as in they look like gay men but they're actually straight women. No, there's nothing stopping them, but they know they're not supposed to be there and it's the thrill of trespassing that gets them off.

[–]EveSerpentFiregender Mon-Fri / Pyrogender Wknds & Holidays 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

But isn’t that just “passing”?

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Yes, but they have to tack on cis so that we know for realsy reals they totes look like a cis man, honest.

[–]EveSerpentFiregender Mon-Fri / Pyrogender Wknds & Holidays 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Okay. But they always talk about “cis” being so evil. Why would they want to look like something so bad? I guess “cis” must be fine when they desire it then. Hypocrites. (I know they are, but this is a new form in my experience)

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Because no one dates Trans. They demonize "cis" but at the same time they want them so much it hurts. It must be tiring to live life like this.

[–]EveSerpentFiregender Mon-Fri / Pyrogender Wknds & Holidays 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ah, of course.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Well that post isn’t being brigaded by transypantsters is it. I love how it costs nothing to be a science denier for the sake of not hurting teenage K Pop fans feelings about being gay men trapped in the wrong body.

[–]ukrdude10 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Already brigaded. 33% upvoted. Comments using homophobic slurs like "gaycel" are getting upvoted. Typical suspects, u/thesilentchief, u/DClawdude are in full swing.

[–]fuck_reddit 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Don’t forget “cissies,” “f*****” and “terf”

[–]ThrowMeAway2879 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Also: "TERF can be used against gay men, the F just stands for something else". They are very proud of themselves.

[–]fuck_reddit 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah it made me pretty pissed to see them openly saying that on a gay subreddit

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Ugh why do I even bother to check out who these self-proclaimed “gay men” who are TRAs and say that gay men can be attracted to “gay trans men” are? They’re all fetishists. The first one I checked was posting “Pup Play” pics. It’s all heterosexual trans-identifying males and females whose only hobby seems to be sexual paraphilia including BDSM and thought policing. Gee I wonder if those things are connected.

Normalize kink-shaming.

[–]JulienMayfair 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

these self-proclaimed “gay men” who are TRAs

They are mostly young and brainwashed. Keep in mind that Reddit skews young, the lgbt subs more than most.

[–]usehername 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

There's a reason they call it peddit

[–]PatsyStoneMaverique 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ghislaine Maxwell was at one point the Most upvoted account, despite not having much of a post history. People speculated she must have been posting constantly in multiple private subs.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And I think that’s possibly even more terrifying. My only hope is that as they gain more life experience, they come to see that the dogma they’ve been fed doesn’t match reality. But it makes me sick that they’re being groomed to feel like they must try to be attracted to the opposite sex or something is wrong with them.

[–]ThiccDropkickGay 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I know this sub gets a hard on for having kinks=TRA but most of them are normal people, pup play in particular is one of the most harmless

[–]shveya 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Just last night I sorted r/askgaybros by controversial and found yet another fujoshi raging out over gay men not wanting her engorged clit to penetrate them. This new generation of straight girls is wild.

[–]filbs111 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"entitled to" is an odd word. I don't think the state should be providing such facilities, but the private sector should be able to create spaces with whatever rules of entry they see fit.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

https://archive.ph/ga3i0

[–]Movellon 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I did enjoy posting that thread, just to stir the pot!