RantRANT: Whycan't we have our own fucking spaces?

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[–]fuck_reddit 27 insightful - 10 fun27 insightful - 9 fun28 insightful - 10 fun -  (1 child)

Someone should make a FB group or subreddit with such a boring, conservative, religious title that no TRA would ever want to join. Something like a private discussion group for discussing St Thomas Aquinas for people in their third year of Catholic Seminary studying to become a Little Sister of the Poor. Then in actuality it’s for LGB people. That way there doesnt need to be any explicit “no trans” rules. Nor would we need to ban anyone. It would spread by word of mouth or something.

[–]millicentfawcett 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm in a FB group like this, women have been doing it for quite a while. Completely random group name that gives no hints as to what is discussed there. Admittance is word of mouth only and based on referral by an existing member preferably with some real life contact. Downsides are that it's totally private and off the radar of lots of women who would really benefit from joining will never know it's there. It would be the same with a group specific to the L, the G or B. Young LGB people who are just coming out really need to hear from older people that boundaries are okay and unfortunately super secret groups are counterintuitive to this. It's a real dilemma.