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[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I can add you seem very feminine in character and femininity is first and foremost something coming from inside, not a piece of cloth.

[–]reluctant_commenter 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

That's a really interesting observation, thanks :) funny, it feels so strange to hear that, since I got so much shit for being too "masculine" growing up... "Why won't you play with girls' toys? Why won't you wear girls' clothes? What's wrong with you?"

Do you think of feminity as being personality traits, then? As opposed to, say, style of dress?

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 8 insightful - 6 fun8 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

I hated girls toys too. Baby dolls and kitchens, so boring, so sexist. I pretended I was a powerful man who owned the world and had a wife :D

Basically dominant lesbian me was already there LMAO

I liked to wear my father suit ties. But now I'm not masculine.

Femininity is definitely especially something coming from inside, your natural character, mannerism.

But also I like the feminine style, longer hair and normal female clothes.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Also, my real name is Elvira. But I called myself Elviro, like a male. Oh my God, can you imagine if I had born in one of this progressive families today. They would have convinced me to be trans.

[–]reluctant_commenter 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Really! Your name is fucking awesome! Both versions sound cool. I thought it might be the name of a character from a book or something.

Oh my God, can you imagine if I had born in one of this progressive families today. They would have convinced me to be trans.

Yeahhhhh probably, and honestly my family might have, too... that thought disturbs me. I certainly got enough bullshit growing up about how I "played with the boys too much," wouldn't be surprised if I'd felt more peer pressure over it. As it is, I know people my age who had our age peers be like "you're secretly a man and in denial about it" and other homophobic BS like that.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Thanks. It was my grandmother's name. I've got two others female cousins with same names. Here in Italy is tradition to being named after your grandparents.

It's actually pretty typical of homosexual to display opposite sex behaviour when they're young. In the end I didn't end up masculine and getting older has made me more into typical feminine style, but as a kid I really was a lot into the idea of being a male.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And nowadays kids who are showing any such behaviour are transed instantly. And in some countries like Canada you can't say "maybe you just a gay/lesbian and not trans?" - because that is outlawed and you can get jailed for that.

Tavistock data showed up to 65-70% of girls were lesbians (or bisexual) in UK who were transing pre-18.

And as someone put it in this sub, similar for boys in USA 60-65% are gay (or bisexual): https://twitter.com/Transgendertrd/status/1376453938992578560

It is mass gay conversion therapy, and eugenics - as blockers (and hormones with surgeries later) are making those homosexual kids infertile, even if they decide to desist afterwards.