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Can a bisexual woman please explain this to us so we get it?

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[–]exponent2[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

i dont agree with it and im guessing it's awkward for you to get into, since it's humiliating for a straight man to confess his misogyny and homophobia, but i can understand how a straight man's misogyny and homophobia can arouse him.

You're deflecting and everyone here knows it. Bimbo porn is completely understandable to me because the link from misogyny and seeing lesbians as not even lesbians but 2 straight bimbo play things lines up perfectly.

But most women are still homophobic and its rarely talked about. And i dont group feminine as "weak"..again, you're deflecting. Im saying thats how a lot of them think. Theyre incredibly sensitive to any signs of femininity within straight men and regulate them with homophobia. So how can they find specifically gay men arousing? How do they even reconcile the 2 since it doesnt make any sense. And yes, it's really complicated but it requires a lot of analysis which no one has ever really done. Your answer is as obtuse and obstructive as a straight man saying: "it's really not complicated. im a guy and i like women...so why not 2 women". It's way more complicated than that and the dehumanization shows. I just dont see how they can reconcile their contradicting sexual interests with their homophobia but i guess i guess it's cognitive dissonance since straight men can be very homophobic and sexist towards lesbian women and run home to masturbate to 2 lesbians in a porn clip.

[–]germinare 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Dude, I’m getting some weird fetish vibes out of your post. I dunno what you’re spankin’ to on this question, but I’m out. Yikes. 😂

[–]exponent2[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

why are you being so childish and immature? Do you accuse lesbians of "getting off" trying to understand why straight men fetishize them to such an extreme? You've left 2 comments now and theyre an attempt to derail a conversation. And it's interesting how you feel so comfortable centering everything around yourself with your homophobia...which like i commented before, runs VERY deep within women but they give themselves permission as "victims" to perpetuate it.

And notice your other comment? Inferring there's misogyny if someone perceives femininity as "weak" within a gay male? Again, centering it around yourself as if femininity someone originates within women and somehow it flows from you and you're giving it on loan to gay men? lol Do you honestly not see how preposterous you are? Everytime a bisexual enters a homosexual space, it's as if theyre pure heterosexuals with their psychology and are missing about 700 years of cultural evolution.

You didnt even attempt to answer the question. And you feel attacked by that question and are attempting to deflect. You somehow feel comfortable and entitled, assuming you'll be accommodated and not called out for trying to sabotage a thread and answering questions like a straight man would: "i dont know...i guess 2 is better than 1...hahahahah" <-- i guess your psychological levels of maturity are that of a narcissistic straight teenage boy. There are no straight men here to enable or indulge your self centeredness so, how exactly do you think this is a good look on you?

In a feminist circle, the question would be answered like this: "straight men dont acknowledge lesbian sexuality. theyre homophobic and dont even respect women. they find it arousing because they see them as 2 straight women being bimbos. they dont see them as human so thats why they can fetishize them"...and then go into a deeper analysis.

And what did you think you could do? "hahaha...2 is better than 1! ahha dont be weird my bro!"