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[–]julesburm1891 35 insightful - 9 fun35 insightful - 8 fun36 insightful - 9 fun -  (6 children)

I want TRAs to throw the biggest fit. Please. Let the straights get a taste of what we’ve been dealing with and this will finally end.

[–]BusterGrundle 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

They've been coming at us for a while, I've had 3 or 4 TRAs pick arguments with me with their stupid bullshit hypotheticals.

"If you were at a party and me the perfect woman, I mean the perfect woman and then found out she was trans would you date her then?!"

[–]julesburm1891 10 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

It’s just so absurd. If being trans isn’t an issue at all, why aren’t they dating each other instead of harassing people who don’t want them.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 8 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I'd say she isn't a dating prospect because a) there are no perfect women and people who think that there are are delusional, and b) what may be perfect for one may be wrong for another. A perfect woman for a lesbian would be one who was born a woman and has lived as a woman their entire life, not just a portion of it.

[–]SapphicFox 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

I mean, if you don't want to date trans people that already voids the idea of that person being the 'perfect woman' from the start, the trans revelation automatically makes that person imperfect to your personal dating pool.

Why do these people never understand that anything can be a dealbreaker?

[–]BusterGrundle 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

For real, and they argue under the impression that I'm attracted to every cis woman when truthfully it's not very many at all. It's like they have a quota of calling people a transphobe they have to hit on a daily basis.

[–]SapphicFox 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Same. I think deep down they know how unappealing they are to the general population, and thats going by personality more than looks, so they're desperate for any oppression points they can claw out.