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[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 33 insightful - 7 fun33 insightful - 6 fun34 insightful - 7 fun -  (8 children)

Other than the fact that "Connor" is rude, entitled, homophobic and delusional, which makes a person unattractive to everybody, not just to gay men. But the elephant in the room is that "Connor" is female, therefore she is a woman. But hey, if "cis" - natural - gay men are expected to find trans "men" attractive, then why doesn’t "Connor" just date another trans "man"? Oh, that’s right. She wants the D. But only she is allowed to want that.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 21 insightful - 7 fun21 insightful - 6 fun22 insightful - 7 fun -  (7 children)

I still don't understand how more straight men haven't taken advantage of the situation and lied that they were gay to get all the front hole they could want.

[–]julesburm1891 23 insightful - 3 fun23 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

There’s probably a lot more not-crazy straight women who they don’t have to play elaborate pretend with to get laid.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 16 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

probably. It's hard to tell based on straight mens' conversations and jokes what is ever going on. And it may end up doing more harm than good if female-attracted men pretended to be homosexual, because they may end up giving transmen "evidence" that gay men ought to be attracted to them.

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 15 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

That is already happening

[–]pacmanla 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Straight men prefer the women they deal with, not to have obsessions of actually being a male. Transmen (women) are on a lot of hormones, which cause mustache growth, etc. Long story short, heterosexual men don't want to be with women who have severely altered their appearance & behavior to look & be male.

[–]bopomofodojo 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Bingo. It's not just uncanny valley, but contradictory uncanny valley. I sort of feel bad for transmen. Gay men and straight women don't want them because they're, well, women, physically (turn off during sex), and straight men don't want them because they look like and try to be like men (turn off before sex). All that's left are lesbians who are OK with the "sure hun you're a guy" shtick. Which in my experience is a big chunk of them.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Most straight men don’t want to stick their dicks in crazy.