Well said. I really hate how feminists deny the impact feminism has had on men's "mental health". I literally witnessed it growing up... my own mother, a black second-waver, and my grandmother (she was a Black Panther), and my aunts severely browbeat black men during the 80s and 90s. My own father rarely spoke and was soft-spoken at home, and he worked at a prison where he needed to be a manly man, not a feeble man.

I was told my grandmother knocked out her husband's teeth. She cheated on him (part of "sexual liberation") which is why my mom had a different father than her youngest siblings (there will 11 siblings in all). Maybe white feminism was different from black feminism.