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[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 29 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

They use it as dom and sub.But even then I don' think there is strict dom and sub in most lesbian couples.These people want everyone to fit into little boxes and see relationships as some power play. Disgusting

[–]reluctant_commenter[S] 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But even then I don' think there is strict dom and sub in most lesbian couples.

Completely agree. The idea of seeing relationships solely through a power play lens disturbs me, as well.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 18 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

It's kind of ironic that for people who reject the idea that sex fits neatly into two boxes and a super tiny basket of oddities, they hate when personalities that actually do exist on a spectrum are difficult to keep track of