ColonizationMtF on another "lesbians" subreddit: "I feel like I'm not attracted to women the same way other woman are" yeah no shit, you have male socialization

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[–]winterwillow 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you! I read your comment after I posted mine, and I think we both were on to the same thing, that this is a curated account. And I think you're right about it being 'means to an end' i e he wants to larp as a lesbian better.

I did some more poking around in his comments, and it became quite clear that he first made this account to pose as a female/lesbian, for instance, he comments about being afraid to give birth/become a mother on /childfree and about same-sex marriage on Christian subs.

Not to brag about my internet sleuth skills, all I did was search his location + profession in /mtf after poking around but I did find his trans account. It's not all TRA, I hate terfs etc, so not fully Dr Jekyll/Mr Hyde, but as I predicted, he doesn't disclose on dating apps. Probably because he is trans med and thinks hrt makes him female. There's a link to a blog with a profile pic, and no way does he pass/is he stealth. His dates after transition has also been mtf. A lot of complaining about being single and not fitting in anywhere.

He's also posted in /detrans that his transition hasn't resulted in anything, if you read between the lines: no cis girlfriend. He keeps describing himself as a nymphomanic/sex addict, but there's little of that on this trans account, so maybe he has a third account for all his porn/fetish stuff.

I found this comment by him that further prove you were right about the larping, from 8 months ago on his old account (his new account is 9 months old):

This is something I've definitely noticed as well. Someone else described how many trans people are like this: Imagine you move to a foreign country but only ever hang out with other expats at expat hangouts, are you really integrating yourself and living in the other country?

So now he's trying to integrate himself into the land of lesbians by posting about being an 'assertive top' and have lesbians assure him it's normal to feel like straight guy. It's so insidious. I would post the username, but would that be doxxing?

(Also good for you for noping out on a transbian therapist, sound like a nightmare.)