But what's worse or better is subjective. To you, diseases can be worse than being assaulted and raped by a woman. But in my view, a gay man getting a woman in a glory hole is worse than him getting those diseases you are talking about. The STDs and STIs can be cured, and even in cases where they can not be cured, one can use medication to at least reduce the symptoms of the diseases. And if they are too poor to afford the medication, then in my view, going to the grave is still way better than being raped, and being fed the lie that a "trans man is a man", because those lead to gay men hiding their true authentic selves to do it with a woman. That's conversion therapy, which can result in psychological pain by reinforcing damaging and homophobic attitudes.

Gay men can't undo or reduce the symptoms of a woman taking advantage of the glory holes and sexually assaulting and raping them by making them think they are doing it with a man eventhough they are doing it with a woman. "Trans men" are women, them going to glory holes and doing it with gay men without the gay men knowing they are doing it with women and not men is rape by deception. It is very disrespectful for a woman to obtain the "agreement" of a gay man to engage in dating and/or sleeping with her, and they are doing it by means like brainwashing gay men to think these women are men, it shows a woman's complete lack of respect for the sexual attraction of gay men towards other men, and their boundaries.

In my view, being raped is far worse than getting a disease.

In someone else's view, both being raped and getting a disease can be as bad as each other. And in your view, getting a disease is worse than being raped.

You see, this is subjective. And if a gay man believes him being raped by these women is far worse than him getting those diseases in glory holes, then you should respect that.

It's not up to you to ban glory holes just because you're scared of getting diseases, because unlike you, there are gay men who want to go in there, and are fine with the risks of diseases and are not scared of them like you are. You don't get to ban the place they want to go to just because of a fear you have.

What all gay men (doesn't matter if they are fine with risk of diseases or not) definitely don't want is doing it with women though. We're talking about gay men, not bisexual men who call themselves gay and do it with a woman but say they are gay.

Even for bisexual men, them not knowing they are doing it with women, and not men in the glory holes, is rape by deception. So what should be banned is "trans men". "Trans men" should not be allowed in gay men spaces. Just like "trans women" should not be allowed in our gay women spaces.

Even if the issue of rape by deception didn't exist, gay men spaces are supposed to be spaces for men to date and/or do it with other men. Women are excluded by definition, and should be banned from going to gay men spaces. Even if the gay men space is a glory hole. Not the glory hole itself.

If a man wants to date and/or do it with a woman, then he should go to all these other places that are there for straight/bi people to date and/or do it with the opposite sex. Not gay men spaces that are supposed to be for men to date and/or do it with the same sex. If a man goes to gay men spaces to date and/or do it with a woman then he is violating the spaces of gay men by having a woman in there, and as a result disrespecting gay men.