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[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

You should try them, but the "terf" lesbians don't call themselves "terf". There are normies who have never heard of this nonsense. There are also ultra-woque girls. There's a mix, for sure. When I was on there I blocked any male or trans profiles posing as lesbians. They're usually easy to spot. If their picture doesn't give them away, then their ultra-gross, sexual language does.

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Gotcha, thanks for sharing your thoughts. I don't feel like I'm in a ready place to date again yet, but I'll keep that in mind. It often feels like everyone is hardcore TRA, but if that's not necessarily true. (Then again, I'm in kind of a TRA-heavy area, lol.)

If their picture doesn't give them away, then their ultra-gross, sexual language does.

Ugh, I bet. Just curious, do you have any sense of the proportion of profiles you saw that were for trans-identified males?

[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That's reasonable. Is it okay if I message you? I don't want to give any info that could be too identifying in the comments. I didn't bother to keep track of the proportion of trans-identified males when I searched for "women" on Tinder, but there were more real women.

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, absolutely! No pressure either way though. :)