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[–]SkinnyVanilla 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In my late teens and early 20s I lucked into being absorbed by a fairly large friend group of older gays and lesbians, so I got to spend a lot of time with well-adjusted gay people, and see healthy relationship dynamics in gay relationships. They were my role models, and had a wide variety of presentations. Manly men, feminine men, butch women, femme women, etc.