I think what you fail to recognize is the worst damage isn't necessarily to the people who get "brainwashed" but to bisexual and lesbian communities that have to deal with their memberships being affected by this including that there are now a massive amount of bihet women speaking on behalf of lesbians and bisexual women to the detriment of actual lesbian and bisexual women.

No, I didn't fail to recognize it. Your framing of it as people being "brainwashed" is what I disagree with. You make it sound like it's some sort of "gay propaganda" trying to convert heterosexual women. These people aren't victims of someone's evil agenda. They're at best morons and at worst self-centered asshats. I'm inclined to believe it's the latter. As far as I'm concerned, some self-involved idiot breaking up with her boyfriend because she dug up and read something stupid on the internet deserves all the terrible things that happen to her as a result of that. Not only do I have no sympathy for these women, I hate them for inserting themselves into lesbian spaces.

I'm tired of people trying to frame TQ supporters and these co-opting asshats as victims. They're terrible people doing terrible things. They lost my sympathy the moment they started doing things that hurt others. They should be held responsible for their behavior instead of getting a pass as being "misguided". If you see something bad happen and you don't do anything, you're an enabler. If you see someone doing something bad and you join in on it, you're a bad person. We live in an age of information where all the TQ criticism are just a few clicks away. They're no different than flat-earthers, holocaust deniers, or anti-vaxxers. Ignorance isn't an excuse.

Look at [...] how many actual lesbians have been convinced that they're not really women

Truth be told, I don't care. If they want to delude themselves and dedicate their life to full time LARP, that's on them. Nobody is required to be a lesbian. If, with the entirety of human knowledge at their finger tips, people still choose to be misinformed, then there's really no helping people like that. I just want men and bihet women to get out.