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[–]reluctant_commenter 47 insightful - 6 fun47 insightful - 5 fun48 insightful - 6 fun -  (3 children)

Anyone else weirded out by the "step on me" and "slice me in half" comments?

Those have always made me uncomfortable, even when I used to be more in the TRA camp.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 38 insightful - 3 fun38 insightful - 2 fun39 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Yeaaaaa. 😳 I don’t know any woman who talks like that. And they always comment that in response to innocuous photos of women with masculine or tomboy vibes. It’s because they’re fetishistic men who associate being female and/or feminine with being submissive and masochistic, so in their minds, this is the best way they can communicate they’re real women (or “cute girls” 🤮). They also believe in masculine vs feminine roles in a relationship so they’re trying to act out the feminine role whereas the sword lesbian is acting out the masculine role in their (and probably his) minds.

[–]blackrainbow 39 insightful - 3 fun39 insightful - 2 fun40 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I suspect that the top/bottom dichotomy was introduced by them in lesbian communities. I HATE that. We're not like gay boys! 95% of lesbians I know are versatile!

[–]Shadow_Lurker 20 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I suspect that the top/bottom dichotomy was introduced by them in lesbian communities. I HATE that.

It's almost like they learned all of this shit in media and MtF internet communities. Who would have thought?