RantI’m disgusted with r/ActualYuri

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[–]8bitgay 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (12 children)

I'm glad that when it comes to gay porn manga/art, transmen are almost nowhere to be seen. They might force themselves into our communities but at least they haven't been able to force gay artists to draw transmen (so far).

Awful to know the situation is not the same for you girls. It seems like the name of some "lesbian" subs are unfortunately ironic.

[–][deleted] 28 insightful - 4 fun28 insightful - 3 fun29 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

i saw some of that pressure on twitter. transmen are trying to copy transwomen, but the idiots don't realize they don't have institutional power like transwomen have (especially on reddit).

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

My lesbian friend was complaining to me that around 10-15 years ago in lesbian ("yuri") genre often started appearing futanari, when at first it is lesbian sex, but then one of them near the end grows up a penis with some kind of magic and it ends up with PiV, so lesbian sex was only "a warm up". And she was complaining that it was way too often and still considered as "lesbian", while when it is transwoman it was considered different genre (unles it is "gender bender", when man is transformed into woman, they start having lesbian sex and then he transforms back into man "to finish") about "cross-dressing". And even if it is completely lesbian sex, there often is strapon or dildo.

In general it looks like a lot of the times women there are bisexual (or even straight) and everything ends with penis.

I think I know much more stuff about lesbians than about gays because of her complains, lol. I am not against it, thought, and she need someone to cry about.

I have strong feeling that "lesbian woman growing dick during lesbian sex" and "man transformed temporary into woman to be lesbian" is big reason in huge amount of transitions of transwomen. In transmen who are attacking AskGayBros it is majority who are fans of gay porn and yaoi manga. I can imagine it is the same with "transbians" (and in general with transwomen).

[–]bethlehemcrane[S] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Your friend is right, it’s a problem. You can tell because it’s so deeply ingrained into our society to just… violate women’s spaces.

For example, look at any lesbian artwork. There are a few nasty hallmarks of straight-man-fetishizing-lesbians that you can see right off the bat.

1.) One or both is looking at the viewer, despite being intimate with the other girl.

2.) Creepy man standing in the background jerking off

3.) Both are carbon copies of the other, no individuality and no personality.

4.) MaGiC pEnIs LoLz 🤣 🤣 so clever

5.) Scissoring

[–]BigMommyMilkersYes, they're real 6 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

Scissoring

Hey now, nothing wrong with a good clitoral pounding sesh

[–]ColoredTwice 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Scissoring how it shown in porn is pretty inconvinient. There much better ways of tribbing.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Literally yesterday she was complaining to me that in most movies, games or TV series about lesbians there penises involved - either one of them is bisexual and pregnant (the Last of Us 2), or one of them is raped (and often pregnant too), or have sex with man because they want kids, or forcibely pushed into straight marriage by parents or society, almost always one of lesbians dies near the end of movie. She even said that there are a bunch of movies where "they wanted kids and one of them went sleeping with a man to get pregnant" - sex with man is shown as passionate one, and only very few movies showing that she is not enjoying it. Seems like lesbians who are lesbians are even more rare in movies than gay men (while "lesbians" may be more often, but seems it is just for male gaze). And seems all their stories are always sad.

In anime or manga I can imagine there being everything just wrong, because whole genre seems to be made by perverted men for perverted teen boys.

For example, look at any lesbian artwork.

I don't really think I can appreciate it or understand what is wrong there anyways.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

This annoys me sooooo much.

[–]BigMommyMilkersYes, they're real 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

It's annoying that a woman cannot seem to exist romantically and sexually with another woman without men being involved in some way (or male bodies now with the twoon nonsense). It's rare to find a show or movie with this (although some do exist), and even real life lesbians who exclusively date and sleep with women are by far, the smallest minority in the sexualities.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah, in homophobic societies gay men are imprisoned or executed, but lesbian women are forced into marriages or PiV sex instead. Only in more free western societies lesbians can avoid this, but seems not for long anymore, as young lesbians are already under siege in "LGBT"-groups and social media.

[–]BigMommyMilkersYes, they're real 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The gay men have been, for the most part from what I've seen, incredibly resilient against the woke homophobia and standing their ground on body autonomy, I have definitely gained a new sense of respect for gay men.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

To be honest lesbians I've saw - are resilient too, it is just that gay men are not erased by big platforms like Twitter and Reddit, while lesbians are.

[–]DifferentAirGC 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Is there a male equivalent of futanari? That is, the character looks male, but has a vagina and dick, or only a vagina.