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[–]blackrainbow[S] 27 insightful - 4 fun27 insightful - 3 fun28 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

Another thing that amazes me is that the feeling of "being a girl" is "valid" while the feeling of being a predator is not

[–]reluctant_commenter 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That's a really important insight. I think it is telling, as well, that they just blanket-deny or blanket-accept feelings, rather than examining where they come from. It's black-and-white, "valid" or "not valid".

[–]blackrainbow[S] 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Well, black and white thinking is a BPD symptom