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[–]our_team_is_winning 47 insightful - 7 fun47 insightful - 6 fun48 insightful - 7 fun -  (7 children)

<I’m FtM and so is my boyfriend, we’re both 19 >

Ok, so two teenage females who jumped on the social contagion bandwagon with both feet. Heads up, neither of you has a boyfriend.

<one of the first messages I received was literally a guy asking: “Why are you on Grindr? This is for gay men”.>

That should be the response of every single person on earth. What I find so odd is that I guess (?) women are doing this because of misogyny, but then the first thing they want to do is hook up with a man. Gee, is it because they are straight women? (yes!) But somehow a gay man isn't going to be one of those misogynist straight men who they were trying to escape from, right? I think they imagine gay men are "like girls" so they're non-threatening. This is just so insulting to all people, male, female, gay, straight -- this transgender stuff is a dumpster fire.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 30 insightful - 2 fun30 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I think they imagine gay men are "like girls" so they're non-threatening. This is just so insulting to all people, male, female, gay, straight -- this transgender stuff is a dumpster fire.

I think this is exactly it. It’s like the evolution of the “fag hag.” It manages to be deeply misogynistic, homophobic, and lesbophobic all at the same time. These trans men who date other trans men and consider themselves gay men are just so sad.

And one of her main hook-up experiences was sex with a man in a public restroom who viewed her as a woman anyway? Yikes. How the hell is this escaping misogyny/the problems of being with straight men?

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 23 insightful - 2 fun23 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

And apparently looking for hookups up in bathrooms. The rapey kind of straight boys will love to hear about that.

[–]Eurowoman24 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

and gleefully stating TMAM

[–]Shadow_Lurker 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I’m FtM and so is my boyfriend, we’re both 19

So they are lesbians/bissexual girls who transitioned for whatever reason and didn't even bother to pass...

I smell a detransition (maybe even two) incoming in a few years.

[–]reluctant_commenter 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Or just very dedicated fetishists who are straight. Happens with AGP straight males who date each other, as well.

[–][deleted] 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I'm wondering if these girls are lesbians who are deeply misogynistic. Like, they both have female(ish) bodies (OP says they are pre T (tf did they expect from gay men thten???)), and they are in a fandom where women share erotic stories they write with other women and feminise at least one of the "male" characters in the story. Surely, if they're in a relationship then they're having sex with each other and so at least one of them is into eating pussy. Is it just me, or does this sound at least a little bit lesbian / bisexual?

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"I’m FtM and so is my boyfriend"

Yes, so they're lesbians. This is what happens when you allow teens to saturate their brains with internet bullshit.