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[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

<...I was even able to help this 17 year old feminine boy who was thinking he was trans... ....But what do you all think? Do you think this could definitely help these "trans" kids?...>

I think you already did :)

And yes, they need to hear an alternate perspective on gender expression, that you can be male or female and dress how you want, wear makeup if you want, do any activity you want, without having to assign a gender to it, or claim an alternate identity outside of man or woman.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah it felt good to hear the kid say that he felt better about himself and only showed me that while these gender "specialists" can ask all their questions off their checklist, it doesn't really compare to someone who can really get into your head and understand your struggle internally and can offer true helpful solutions.

And yes, they need to hear an alternate perspective on gender expression, that you can be male or female and dress how you want, wear makeup if you want, do any activity you want, without having to assign a gender to it, or claim an alternate identity outside of man or woman.

Yes 100%