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[–]reluctant_commenter 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I think that people who want the “pretty boy twink” look are actually women with deep internalized misogyny.

Damn. Good way to put it, I'm glad that's the top comment. Also hits close to home for me because I have a lot of internalized misogyny, and kind of hate having boobs. Really glad I somehow missed falling into this trap.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 6 insightful - 8 fun6 insightful - 7 fun7 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

and kind of hate having boobs

Your future love interest would not appreciate you not having those!

[–]reluctant_commenter 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You're right lol. :)

It is hard for me to not hate them though, I was extremely sexualized from a young age and they make me feel like a piece of meat. Research suggests that appreciating what a body part can do as opposed to what it looks like, is often helpful in overcoming that, but I mean, I am not planning to use them for breastfeeding since I don't want to have children, so..