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[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

(I haven't read what's below yet.)

I'm not sure there is something I would call "bi culture"—if there is, I've never encountered it, but I haven't looked either (silly TRA / TQ+ nonsense does not count)—but he definitely should not poison himself with those subreddits. Better to take a slower, healthier road to figuring himself out. Just be, it's not a performance he has to do for anyone else.

I feel like suggesting he find some (older) books, if there are any, but I haven't actually attempted to seek such books, either, but I'm hopeful that something sane and healthy is out there. I hope he manages to avoid being damaged by the crap going on everywhere right now.

Maybe it would be helpful for him to stop by and visit us here. I can't predict how that would affect his process, but it's a thought. A reality check, at least. But he also needs to be careful how much wising up he does in public, lest he be harassed by the usual bullies.

ETA: I agree about watching your own back here, in case he has been influenced by the TRA Kool-Aid already.