LesbianSo sick of these straight/bi women suddenly realizing they are lesbians conveniently after their male partner decides he's a woman...

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[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 29 insightful - 6 fun29 insightful - 5 fun30 insightful - 6 fun -  (12 children)

It is - "my sexuality depends not on me, but on whatever other people say".

Why am I going to that sub every time someone mentioning it? I know, I will only see this: https://i.imgur.com/cpDs0xT.png

[–]LasagnaRossa 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Do they know you can respect someone without agreeing with their beliefs?

I'm atheist but respect religious people; just because I think they're mistaken it doesn't mean I hate them and we can't be friends. It's the same with these people, really.

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

It really isn't, unless you're an atheist who's pretending to be a Catholic.

[–]LasagnaRossa 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Sorry, I don't follow you. Care to explain?

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

A woman who's fucking a man isn't a lesbian. and no man is a lesbian, thus there are zero lesbians in this example. Did I misinterpret your comment? I though you were saying that we should just let them claim to be lesbians.

[–]LasagnaRossa 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Did I misinterpret your comment? I though you were saying that we should just let them claim to be lesbians.

Yes and no. I was talking about what "respect someone" means. TRAs think that if you don't believe what someone's says, you're not respecting them; whereas I say that respect is about human dignity and not mistreating people for their beliefs.

So, can they say that a man can be lesbian? Sure they can. People can claim all sort of things, otherwise we wouldn't have antivaxxers and flat-earthers. But do I have to believe them? Nope. And am I disrespecting them because of it? Fucking no.

I hope it's clear now.

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Indeed and I agree.

[–]Debaser 16 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

This is it, spot on.

If I was with someone who pulled this stunt, it would be a swift goodbye, never mind them dictating MY new identity to me based on their cosplay fantasy.

I can't really understand the mental gymnastics required to stay with a person and then "come out" as something that, up until Saturday night, you lived your life to the contrary.

[–]blackrainbow 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Straights who want to feel special and oppressed

[–]Kynesgrove 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My ex did this after we got married and was shocked I didn't support that. Apparently I'm a transphobe now cause I don't want his girlcock. I annulled the marriage and kept my house.