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[–]reluctant_commenter 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I browsed there earlier today looking for the trans threads and ran across a couple saying masculinity is "toxic" and "ruining the mental health of gay men" for example.

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, they are definitely vested in detaching masculinity/femininity from sex, but not in any kind of healthy way. "We don't want men to be too masculine, that's bad, but if they're too fem that means they're really a woman". Like wtf. Maybe by flattening things out it makes transitioning easier?