"So now I've basically discovered I am a lesbian, because I have simply grown as a person while with her, and done a lot of self reflection. On top of that I want to ID as a lesbian and finally she is starting to come out more publicly, experiment with her presentation a lot etc, so it's a possibility for me that I can be out and proud! Finally!"

What.the.hell. They treat our sexuality like a joke like "oh I'm a lesbian after all omg! after multiple relationships with men with whom I enjoyed as I'm pretty much heterosexual, as my bf decided to id as a woman, I suddenly poof become a lesbian" 🤦

EDIT: Omg, this part is even worse:

I feel like part of being a lesbian isn't literally just finding a woman attractive, but somewhat being involved in the culture, the media, a certain humour, the fashion etc.

BEING A LESBIAN ISN'T A F*CKING TREND NOR A 'CULTURE' NOT CLOTHES, YOU EITHER ARE A LESBIAN OR YOU ARE NOT