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[–]blahblahgcer 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I don't think it exists. But for the record, when I said I was detransitioning, people told me that just meant I was gender fluid and also asked if all gender fluid people were welcome in the detrans community.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I can't guess how you felt about it, but that seems like a bizarre question to me. I wouldn't even know how to answer. I suppose it depends on how they are defining "detransition" in relation to themselves, and whether or not they are letting detransitioners make their own choices and come to their own conclusions, or want to push some other definitions onto other people. It sounds like there's some pushing going on if they are telling you that you are gender fluid now. That would leave me feeling wary of more attempts to define, appropriate, etc. a group they might not agree with. Does that make sense? Wondering what your take is, if you've even come to any conclusions yet.

[–]blahblahgcer 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I don't agree that genderfluid people are considered detransitioners. It definitely feels like they're using us for their own gain though.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's how it sounds, yes.