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[–]CJLez 50 insightful - 5 fun50 insightful - 4 fun51 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

Words for "Lesbians not attracted to trans women"

Pussy fetishist

Genitalia, by definition, aren't fetishes.

Someone who wants to see transwomen dead

Someone who wants to see transwomen assulted and beat

Unless they have a violent family member or are unlucky enough to run across some actually transphobic jackasses in the street who want to jump them, as a transbian this person is at a near zero risk of ever being killed simply for being trans. Rather than use that level of security they have to try and stop straight men killing transwomen (both hookups and sex workers) they'd rather spend their time trying to guilt lesbians into sleeping with them while using those murder victims as a shield.

Someone who wants transwomen excluded from places they have a right to be

I really hope by 'places' they don't mean vaginas but I wouldn't put it past them.

If your attraction to females doesn't include trans females and includes males, including trans males, you're not a lesbian

Leaving aside the fact that they accidentally just admitted that if you're attracted to males you aren't a lesbian, this is where the same-gender attraction method falls through. The vast majority of transmen and trans-masc NBs look indistinguishable from women. As someone who likes butches there are plenty of physically attractive FTM and FTNB people out there, esspecially those who only socially or lightly transition. Back on r/AL I once saw someone explain that lesbians can't be attracted to transmen because they have body hair and muscles so lesbians would find them repulsive... As though women can't naturally have body hair or muscles.

They always say that same-sex-attraction doesn't exist because you feel attraction to a person before you can tell their sex. Yet they somehow expect you to be able to tell their gender by osmosis. I'm slightly butch myself - I could secretly identify as a man, non-binary, agender, gender fluid, gender queer or any one of dozens of 'real and valid' gender identities and nobody would be able to tell by looking at me what I identified as. The fact remains that I am biologically female and only people that are attracted to females have the capacity to ever be attracted to me.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 27 insightful - 5 fun27 insightful - 4 fun28 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

transbian this person is at a near zero risk of ever being killed simply for being trans.

Especially by woman. They have some small chance of being killed by man, but not by woman. Especially not by lesbian who don't even want to have any business with them at all.