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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries"[S] 27 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

The removed comments are generally discussing (1) lesbian erasure by the concept of bi/pan lesbians and (2) the need for lesbian only spaces, which others call a dog whistle because why would lesbians need their own spaces when all WLWs are the same apparently despite the dozens of comments from lesbians explaining how lack of attraction toward men is the root of a lot of the mistreatment they face, not same-sex attraction toward women. I can relate because it was a lot easier for me to figure out I was attracted to women than that I was not attracted to men because there is so much pressure that you are made to feel like the problem is you.

https://www.removeddit.com/r/actuallesbians/comments/i163n2/we_dont_talk_about_lesbophobia_enough/?sort=top

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 26 insightful - 4 fun26 insightful - 3 fun27 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Maybe PM those women, who commented that about /r/TrueLesbians moved on Saidit to /s/Lesbians?

[–]verystablegenius 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

someone definitely needs to go through AL and message each of these people.