Then you’re reading studies rather than just looking at the entirety of history rife with examples that show the contrary.

And the same with men. Men were not given general franchise, men have been forced to labor and be conscripted and killed, the list goes on. Men have singularly been the target of most violence in society since as far as can be stated. I can play this game too, and it gets nobody anywhere. The blame game, which is largely what feminism these days seems to be about, is just like every other ideology. Like communism or anything else. It lacks nuance, does not map reality, and creates a fiction of victimization.

Regardless, no one said other people don’t get called those things but it’s definitely more women than men.

Citation needed. I've no doubt you feel that way, but there are also studies about that too. Women are more reactive to online trolling and harassment than men tend to be. https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2017/07/11/online-harassment-2017/

"Overall, men are somewhat more likely to experience any form of harassing behavior online: 44% of men and 37% of women have experienced at least one of the six behaviors this study uses to define online harassment." - but women are more likely than men to view this as a problem.