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[–]midnight305 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

After being raped and subconsciously forced to date men because of my family values I discovered I was a lesbian because i never liked male parts.

It's also kept me from getting a partner because so far the only lesbians I've meet online has been gold stars and they dony want a tainted woman sadly.

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I don’t know what people you’re meeting, but unless you’re actively dating and sleeping with men and calling yourself a lesbian, there is no way the majority of lesbians would refuse to date you. It’s super rare to be a goldstar. I am, but I am in a minority.

Also: women do not consider “rape” as having SEX with a man, rape is rape. If someone is telling you that being raped has tainted you then they are an asshole. Lord.

[–]midnight305 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

To many on the internet I never actually meet any in real life cuz they all stood me up.

Meet one, but just friends from a college group I joined. So that's about it.

Would love to meet more women .