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[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 76 insightful - 12 fun76 insightful - 11 fun77 insightful - 12 fun -  (7 children)

I blame her friend for this too. Her gut kept telling her she didn't belong there, but the friend kept encouraging her. Either he's just as (if not more so) delusional as she is, or he's an asshole who was setting her up for failure (and making everyone else at the party uncomfortable in the process.)

But like, I hate to be crude but............................ You're a girl with a vagina. If you just want some random dudes to gangbang you, I'm sure you can make it happen. The fact that you NEEED them to be gay/bi/queer identified shows me that you have a fetish or at least an unhealthy fixation.

[–]Charon2525 44 insightful - 2 fun44 insightful - 1 fun45 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Either he's just as (if not more so) delusional as she is, or he's an asshole who was setting her up for failure

Or he was terrified of being cancelled and cast out if he was anything other than 100% supportive.

[–]insta 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

He's probably just a well-intentioned twink. It's really easy to have rose-coloured glasses on for the gay community when you're a young twink. This guy probably deluded himself into believing exactly what he was telling the girl because he gets a lot of attention so why wouldn't she.

Considering she goes out of her way to tell us she's above 21 leads me to believe her friend was really young.

[–]fuck_reddit 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I thought it was hilarious that she mentioned that she was 21 when she said she was drinking... like no gay man, especially gay guys at an orgy, care if you're under 21 and drinking, they probably encourage it (along with other substances, and that's a much bigger issue than someone's gender being 'invalidated')

[–]insta 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

(along with other substances, and that's a much bigger issue than someone's gender being 'invalidated')

Don't even get me started on substance abuse in the gay community. It's fucking rampant and everyone just responds with "SLAY KWEEN" as if that is taking it seriously enough. Such a joke.

[–]zeusdx1118 29 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

The fact that you NEEED them to be gay/bi/queer identified shows me that you have a fetish or at least an unhealthy fixation.

EXACTLY

[–]jjdub7TERF (Trans Exterminating Reactionary Fascist) 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

No, to be frank, knowing what types of people congeal within those campus militant queer circles, the friend probably set the whole scenario up as a "learning and personal growth" experience for the dastardly transphobic homosexuals, using this girl as a prop to spread the Woke Gospel.

[–]Eurowoman24 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

there are sooo many het dudes who'd be down