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[–]SilverWolf 29 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

You know, thats actually exactly how I feel these days. I stopped believing in gender when it was no longer the same as sex. There is no male or female "feeling" and I guess that makes me "agender," since I don't feel male or female, other than the fact that I have a penis, but whatever ¯_(ツ)_/¯

[–]Ambisextrous[S] 21 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah stereotypes have become so rigid now that anything outside of the norm means you are not your birth gender. Unfortunately this also includes being interested in the same sex...

[–]Ladis_Wascheharuum 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I went through a brief period where I though agender would be the label for me. Gender self-identification seemed so important to everyone on the internet, so I felt pressured to have that identity, and since I didn't "feel" like a man or a woman (I only felt that I physically have a dick) then the logical conclusion was that I was agender.

Then I realizes that all these super-duper-important labels and identities that it was "literal violence" to get wrong, actually could mean anything and everything and nothing at any time. The whole concept was totally incoherent and the explanations made no sense. I finally figured out it was all bullshit made up by people wanting to be special or feel offended, and a lot of gullible people wanting to belong got swept up in it.

My sex is male. I have a penis and testicles. Don't ask me about my gender until you can define it properly.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I would say that majority of Earth population are "agender", because almost no one "feeling" their sex, and most people trying to fight gender stereotypes.

And I have no idea how it is "to feel a male", while being male for almost half a century.