The one comment on the Medium article is such an obvious fucking sealioning attempt:

Would you be so confident to make this criticism when it is (non-conventionally attractive) cis women making the same complaint?

Which is of course responded to perfectly:

Yes.

The link you posted deals with the myth that “women can get laid whenever they want.” I think only the truly aesthetically and socially gifted among us, of any gender, are capable of such a feat. And I don’t think that myth has any bearing on this conversation.

If a cis woman acted entitled to sex, I would call that out, too. Especially if she tried to portray her lack of romance as some kind of macro-level social problem.