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[–]JulienMayfair 38 insightful - 4 fun38 insightful - 3 fun39 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

"My [female] partner passes as a female."

The mental gymnastics . . .

I feel bad for this guy and the slippery slope he doesn't even realize he's on.

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To be fair, he's going through those mental gymnastics because he obviously loves his partner. He realises that she's a woman and he's attracted to women.

I don't blame him for trying to find a compromise. He's just learning the hard way that that's not how life works--sometimes there are no compromises.