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[–]Greykittymomma 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah because most rapists aren't men? Most child molesters aren't men? Give me a break! Yes a woman could mess with my daughter but she can't rape her with an adult sized penis.

I don't trust anyone. I knew a 'nice' kid and he ended up fucking with two kids in his family. Nope. Nope. Nope. My daughter was 4 months old at the time and the same age as one of his victims.

Yes we really need to get these sick fucks away from our kids. Now we have moms basically inviting men to fondle their kids so they can get laid. Gross.

Do you know how many girls I knew growing up that got molested by a family member? I wish I had the courage then to speak out and get these guys arrested.

[–]lefterfield 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is sad, cause it's actually giving really good, factual advice that's balanced by saying "not all men." Nothing she's saying should be considered controversial to ANYONE.

[–]Femaleisnthateful 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I just can't with Reddit anymore. I'm very concerned for the user base (mostly young males) that grows up socialized into the blatant misogyny that is built in to this site.

[–]GConly 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Virtually all pedophiles are men.

When you do find grown women sex offending against little kids, it's nearly always at the urging of some scrote for his pleasure.

[–]MarkTwainiac 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As is typical, the entire focus in this response is on coddling and kowtowing to grown men who claim they are unfairly impacted - and victimized - by standard safeguarding procedures, rather than on the fact that safeguarding is necessary to protect the wellbeing of children.

Most decent people understand why it's important to be very careful checking the background and references of anyone who has contact with, and takes care of, kids - and do not object to it. Just as we don't object to having to provide references, job history, educational background, professional credentials etc when we are applying for a job. And just as we don't feel personally victimized and claim discrimination when we have to provide all sorts of information as part of trying to rent an apartment or obtain a loan.

Anyone who reacts to basic safeguarding like this is revealing they are precisely the kind of adult who shouldn't be around kids, and particularly shouldn't be allowed to care for them.