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[–]adungitit 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

is it really acceptable to say these things ON THE FIRST DATE?

I would honestly rather be told about these things even before the first date so I don't get attached. How is it better for these things to be stated later on? The only thing it does is make it more likely that the woman will be emotionally attached and say yes to whatever porn-inspired bs the man wants her to perform for him.

many are starting to see vanilla sex as something they're not interested in at all is kind of problematic.

Yup. Vanilla sex has been portrayed as "boring" and unexciting compared to a whole list of misogynistic male-centric kinks you have picked up from your bf or porn site. It also appeals to the desperate need to feel special in today's society. Finally, you can feel like a special snowflake by copying the latest porn trends!