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I feel you, it’s crazy. I did lose people over not believing in it. One told me I “harmed” her by literally just saying “non-binary is meaningless”. I think the harm came from her not being able to argue against that.

My personal stance now is my friends know where I stand. I’m not gonna redefine woman. It means female. Mostly I’m gonna avoid the kweers. If they can tolerate me having different beliefs then great. If they can’t then bye. I’m not a pronoun purist. Sometimes I use them sometimes I don’t. Kind of depends who I’m around and whether they will get triggered by me saying sexed pronouns.