Fair enough. For the record, I can be an asshole as often as not (especially on the internet). But in person when I'm not being a dick, I actually want to hang around with people who aren't being dicks as well. I think that generally goes for most of humanity, and at least for the other guys I know well, we are actually discerning with who we want to consider sleeping with; i.e. someone who we at least feel we can share some sort of common ground with that'll spark an emotional connection. I know very few guys who fit the stereotype of collecting notches on the headboard. They are out there, but I think even in this case, the "players" would probably look elsewhere to women who don't require you to read an instructional pamphlet about their pronouns before going forward.