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[–]CastleHoward 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I was raised in a hippie commune. I can spot a dangerous situation for children from 500 miles a way. As soon as I hear shaming language my ears perk up (uptight/educate yourself) or dismissal of reasonable requests for safety (we are a peaceful community/we just want to pee) but the main one is the protection of the group above all else. They hate it when one of their own talks about the bad parts. Detransitioning means exile.

[–]fuckupaddams[S] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I was raised in a hippie commune. I can spot a dangerous situation for children from 500 miles a way.

That's interesting, was the commune a dangerous situation for you?

[–]CastleHoward 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah, a hippie commune is a dangerous situation for everyone. Even the predators got taken down by vigilantes sometimes.

[–]emptiedriver 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I totally didn't know which way you were going with that at first... I was raised by hippies, not exactly in a commune but at least in the warm months in very "outside of society, back to the land" style living, grow your veggies, cook over a fire, swim naked in the lake, and I think of it as giving me a strong ability to think for myself. I had friends who lived that way year round, but we went back to the city for the school year once we were old enough. But some of those childhood friends now raise their kids on group-owned land in the same way. Why is that dangerous - not enough interaction with different types of people? You get that living in a liberal bubble too, really... I never met a Christian or a Republican in the city I lived in, either. It just seems like in the US there are so many places where you are segregated less from a diversity of skin color etc, but from a diversity of politics or viewpoints.