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[–]FearfulFriend[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

She has been wanting to be a man since we met in the nineties so I think the feelings themselves will last, but I don't know how she'll take to the real-life transition process and what that's like. It's honestly not that part that bothers me, it's that I don't know how to defend my mental boundaries in a way that isn't hurtful to her. I will say that she hangs out with much younger people quite a bit though and she does tend to be influenced by the people she hangs out with.

Thanks for offering to talk. It helps.