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[–]MarkTwainiac 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Divorce is one of the most traumatizing experiences possible. Please immediately seek out support for yourself and your own problems and distress that stem from the recent MAJOR disruptions in your own life, family circumstances and household configuration and routines.

Your apparent distress over one single friend who's come out as trans, and your fears about all your other friends possibly cancelling you coz you don't approve, probably aren't the core or most important issues issues here, nor do they explain your pain.

I also hope you seek out support from other women who are now going through divorce, or have recently gone through it. You don't have to become lifelong friends with other women who've "been there" or are going through it simultaneously - temporary and transitional friends are "valid" (LOL). But IRL support groups of women in much the same boat as you can indeed be a lifeline and an enormous help.

Again, best wishes.