Received a 3 day ban for pointing out the truth that women experience more severe abuse than men. Apparently that’s “promoting hate” 🙄🙄

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[–]TurkishCoffee 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

What the heck does this have to do with being gender critical? aside from frankly imo being wrong. My abuser in this life was female, and I assure you, she was every bit as dangerous as a deranged male. Women aren't "less violent" in the sense of any given individual. Taken as aggregate statistics, sure, but, taken as aggregate statistics we're also less often engineers and we see that as a problem. And neither reflect on the capacity of any given person.

Frankly, i dont think you contributed anything here other than "women aren't capable of being violent abusers so it doesnt count", which is a load of nonsense.

[–]TiredAndSick[S] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It was more meant to be a comment in Reddit’s moderation policy that pointing out the fact men commit more domestic violence than women is somehow promoting hate, while I have been told multiple times by TRAs to kill myself or that I should eat shit and die and that is not considered promoting hate.

Beyond that, I think it is clear that there is a massive physical disparity between men and women (which was the situation we are specifically talking about) that leads to male abuse of women being far more severe than female abuse of men. Add on the systemic element of patriarchy and I think it’s not comparable.

What you mentioned about violence tracks for both men and women. Women are more likely to bear violence on other women and men are more likely to bear violence on other men. In the context of Intrasex violence, Men are more likely to commit violence against women.

[–]TurkishCoffee 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There you go with the men are more physically dangerous or severe bit again though. It's as if you think women haven't learned how to wield weapons or tools and aren't smart or deranged enough depending on the situation to reach for them. I think it's nonsense, and absurd. and your lack of ability to see that women can be violent crazed deranged abusers because of "patriarchy" is..well. nevermind i have nothing more to say to you because my lived experience trumps your nonsense theory.