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[–]penelopekitty 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Do you honestly think you are the first person to try this approach? Some of us have been at this FOR YEARS. All of our kindness and our soft approach got us was trampled on, gaslit, and presented with shifting goalposts. The TRAs and their handmaidens are craven and insidious.