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[–]Apricot_Ibex 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There seems to be a huge overlap between AGP and paraphilias like this, porn addiction, and clinical narcissism and abusive behavior. Even for men who are not AGP or TIMs, the porn/fetish addicted narcissistic abuser profile is prevalent.

With TIMs who are already partnered with women, many tend to follow that pattern where they wait until their partner is pregnant or has just given birth and then suddenly announce they’re trans, out of nowhere. Knowing narcissists, that’s probably because they resent all the attention their pregnant partner and the new baby are now getting and want everything focused back on them...and they also want to trap their partner. If they can throw the family into turmoil by being trans, they can demand validation from the exhausted mother of their child. Also, they feel free to unleash their hidden fetishes now that she is “trapped.”

My friend’s physically and emotionally abusive ex contacted her on Facebook years later, sent her a picture of himself in makeup and a wig, and announced he was trans now, and didn’t she think he just looked amazing? He mentioned offhandedly that he was married now and that his wife had JUST given birth but was leaving him and was totally unsupportive, and wasn’t that just awful? And he somehow needed to message a woman he had once beaten to a pulp, someone who ran away from him and avoided him for years, to tell her all this and get her validation! Total psychopathic behavior.

In Jennifer’s horrible experience in the video, her partner started the gaslighting and the “transbian” porn conditioning very early in the relationship, which seems a little more unusual, but the key elements are narcissism, porn addiction, and emotional and sexual abuse, and then often other forms of physical abuse.

Jennifer immediately talks about how charming, charismatic, and interesting her ex was in the beginning. Of course most people are quite smitten when they click with someone, but we hear this about narcissists, and a lot of cluster B personality types, time and again. I am bracing myself for hearing the rest of this poor woman’s ordeal at the hands of this sociopathic freak.

These TRA handmaidens are no better than any other enablers of sexual and domestic abusers, gaslighting other women to accept male abuse like they’re in a cult.