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[–]msteacherlady 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I am so appalled that they think so little of human anatomy as to suggest a facsimile of a penis is in any way undetectable.

Men experience injury and disease to the groin such that they require phalloplasty. Men for ages have been torturing their members trying to increase girth and length. The results have never been impressive. In all honesty, it would be tragic if something happened to my husband. I would like to think it wouldn't affect our marriage, but that would be a tough thing to live with as an intimate couple. Like, this is a serious thing. We aren't just cars you can swap out a tailpipe for a different one.

These people scream out "genital fetishist!" as if genitals for most sexually active people shouldn't be something important. It makes me question how many of these people have actual human intimacy in their lives and aren't just trapped in their fluffy Adventure Time cartoon world where everyone has noodle bodies and parts don't matter.

Hearts not parts for me has always made the difference between close friendship and a romantic sexual one. This is what also rings the incel bell. It comes off as a friend zone gripe.