you are viewing a single comment's thread.

view the rest of the comments →

[–]QueenBread 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Oh wow, articles by extremely biased sources! If politicalpartyofleopardseatingfaces.com is publishing articles about how leopards eating your face is a pleasant thing, I guess I should change my mind about it and let leopards eat my face!

I guess now I will ignore how -I- feel and the stuff -I- enjoy, and listen to this reliable source telling me that I can't be a woman who loves BDSM!

[–]SavvyDiogenes 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

When the thing you're into is used as an excuse for murder in the court of law (all those "sex gone wrong" scenarios which are most obviously murders and which so many times end up with the murderer getting away) and when it can cause permanent brain damage (from asphyxiation - choking, very common practice ecen though it's one of the MOST dangerous) that would be the time where you should ask yourself if you're actually in the wrong.

[–]QueenBread 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

So, by your logic, we should ban alcohol drinking because it can be used for suicide or cause accidents. I say we also take the next step and ban car driving, too, because it can result in murders or homicides.

[–]SavvyDiogenes 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The difference is that none of these are used as excuses for murder. No one is saying "whoops i was drunk and killed a guy! Please don't give me jail" and actually getting away with it, unlike "sex gone wrong".

I don't say that you should stop doing what you want or whatever, just have the backbone to admit that the shit you're into is not just "harmless fun with no bad things in it at all".

[–]QueenBread 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The difference is that none of these are used as excuses for murder. No one is saying "whoops i was drunk and killed a guy! Please don't give me jail" and actually getting away with it, unlike "sex gone wrong".

You're right, they're not used as excuses for murder or suicide, because they ACTUALLY cause murder and suicide.

Stop kink-shaming and try not to be offended by everything.