Hello! I'm sorry your hurting, breakups are painful. I dated a guy who was confused and brought into the "If I switch genders it will solve everything in my life" propaganda. He abandoned all his friends and me but ultimately I dodged a bullet even though it hurt at the time. Haven't heard from (and I refuse to reach out to him) for a few years now. I cared about him but long term, I'm not interested in being with a mentally unstable person (especially if they're not trying to get help). I wanted to be his girlfriend not therapist and relationships with these folks seem one sided. They hate themselves and there's nothing you can do about it. My advice: You deserve peace of mind, a healthy partner and a healthy relationship, so I would accept this break up and move on (unfollow on every platform, delete numbers etc.) I've seen too many horror stories of people capitulating to their trans partners demands (when they weren't ok with it) and end up destroying themselves in the process. Relationships are already hard enough! You don't need that baggage. Take care of your mental health, connect with friends, get some exercise and eat healthy. When you get a chance and your ready ,make new friends (this will help you meet new dating partners). You will heal from this in time and find the right person (who's on the same page as you) eventually :)