Oh, I am sympathetic to that. (Disclosure - I consider myself strongly GC leaning but not 100% GC, but I like to hang out on all the forums.) Personally I'm ok with "Trans women are trans women" but I think we absolutely need to be clear that they're not women in the biological sense and "woman" alone is not an appropriate descriptor. It always feels a bit off to me to refer to some trans women as men (not the examples I gave in my post above, but say, somebody like Blaire White or Nikkie Tutorials). They've gotten to that point where I can't fully see them as men anymore. I think trans woman and trans man are useful terms to acknowledge that they exist as a social group without trying to pretend that they are literally the same as biological men and women. I think it's ultimately hurtful to the trans people themselves because the more society promotes the delusion that one day they'll be a "real girl/boy" the more they will chase after an unachievable goal and ultimately the worse they will feel.