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    Do you think reading yaoi can cause gender dysphoria?

    If you have addiction tendencies, then you can get addicted to anything. Then you'll begin to centre your life around your addiction. If yaoi was the root cause of 'gender dysphoria' you'd see most cases of 'transness' in women in its country of origin, the place where it's most popular - Japan. But you don't.

    I worry that i am fetishizing gay men in real life. Back when i had a part time job, if I found out a coworker was gay i felt more attracted to them and noticed myself paying close attention to him and watching him and wanting to talk to him more. It’s totally creepy and i am disgusted with myself for this behaviour. I know that gay people are normal people and that since they are gay they are not interested in me. The way i feel seems out of my control. I don’t know why i do this or where it comes from.

    Look up 'fag hag' - this term has been around for decades for a reason.

    [–]MezozoicGay 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

    Right, I completely forgot about that.

    fag stag

    So that is who TiMs really are!

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